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How Do I Know If My Baby Has A Fever?

Saturday, June 27th, 2009

When Baby Has a Fever Babies who don’t feel good tend to be fussier than usual. They may refuse to eat, they may sleep more, they want to be held all the time, they may pull or rub on one or both ears. They may look flushed or puffy around the eyes.

You can “test” your baby’s temperature using Mother’s Method, but to know how high the fever is, you will need a thermometer.

Mother’s Method for Checking Baby’s Temperature

Moms throughout the ages have used this method to help them decide whether they need to get out the thermometer.

Start by placing your hand (palm toward baby) first across baby’s forehead, then on her cheek. If her skin doesn’t feel particularly warm to the touch, then your baby probably does not have a fever, or the fever is not high enough to be too concerned about yet, and you can safely stop your test at this point. On the other hand, if you’re not really sure if you need the thermometer, then move on to the next step.

The above step can be a little tricky because, if your hand is colder than normal, you may get a false result. Baby may feel quite hot to the touch, but it’s only because your hand is too cold. Similarly, if your hand is warmer than normal, such as when you emerge from a hot bath, baby may not feel at all hot to the touch, although she may have a low-grade fever. Likewise, if your baby has been very active, her skin could be warmer due to the activity and not a fever. If this happens, wait until you and baby return to a normal skin temperature—usually just a few minutes—and test again. If you don’t feel like waiting, then move on to the next step.

Next, use your lips. Your lips are usually more sensitive to temperatures than your hand, so this method works well when the previous step is inconclusive. Softly place your lips against baby’s forehead. If her skin feels warm against your lips, then she likely has a fever in excess of 100 degrees F. (On a personal note, I always give my kids a soft kiss while I’m performing this test. It’s one of the perks of being “Nurse Mom.” J)

If your baby feels hot using Mother’s Method, then it’s time for the thermometer.

Using a Thermometer to Determine Baby’s Temperature

You can use either a glass thermometer (standard) or a digital thermometer. The most accurate place on baby’s body is his rectum; the next most accurate is his armpit. Normal infant rectal temperatures range between 97 and 100 degrees. There are thermometers available for inside the ear as well, but I have heard that this location can give inaccurate results. It’s up to you, however, because you’re the parent.

According to PubMed Central, a ditigal archive with the U.S. National Institutes of Health (NIH), rectal temperatures are the only accurate way to determine baby’s temperature. More about “Axillary [armpit] and rectal temperature measurements in infants.”

I have taken my baby’s temperatures both rectally and in the armpit. Both ways have their weaknesses, which I will address briefly.

To take baby’s temperature rectally, you must remove baby’s diaper. As you can imagine, a baby without a diaper leaves you vulnerable to certain “attacks.” So be prepared by placing a cloth or diaper over the baby at “ground zero” to minimize any squirts or leakage. If you decide to hold your baby on your lap while taking his temperature, place a water-proof pad between you and baby as well.

Taking a child’s temperature under his armpit can be a little easier on you and baby in some ways. However, temperature readings may be less accurate and, because babies wriggle and fuss when their arm is being held down, the thermometer has a tendency to slip out of the spot that provides optimum results. Baby may also become frustrated and upset, thus exacerbating the already difficult task. But at least you won’t get wet (or worse!).

How to take baby’s temperature rectally

There are two ways to accomplish this: (a) baby lies on his tummy (preferred position), and you do not lift his legs up, or (b) baby lies on his back, and you pull his legs up in a manner similar to changing a diaper.

Have these items available before you begin:

  • Rubbing alcohol or soap and water
  • Quality rectal thermometer
  • Petroleum jelly or other baby-safe lubricant
  • Tissues
  • Clean diaper
  • Baby wipes
  • Water-proof pad

Using rubbing alcohol or soap and cool water (hot water may break it), clean, rinse, and dry the thermometer thoroughly.

Take an initial reading, to be sure the thermometer shows 96 degrees F or less. If it is too high, shake it down (holding the end opposite the colored bulb) until it drops to the optimum level (unless, of course, you are using a digital thermometer).

Lubricate the bulb end (“probe”) of the thermometer with a small amount of petroleum jelly.

Remove baby’s diaper and clean his rectal area thoroughly with a baby wipe.

Gently spread baby’s buttock cheeks and insert the probe-end of thermometer into baby’s rectum a short distance – about ½ inch for ditigal thermometers or 1 inch for standard thermometers. Stop inserting if it becomes difficult to insert. Never force it.

Carefully cup your hand around baby’s buttocks while hold the thermometer between your fingers to hold in place while awaiting results, even if your baby gets fussy or wriggly. If using a digital thermometer, wait for it to beep. If using a standard thermometer, wait about 3 minutes.

Then remove it to read baby’s temperature.

For standard thermometers, slowly turn the thermometer until you see the colored line. Follow the line to the mark where it ends, and that will be the temperature reading.

Normal rectal temperatures range between 98.06 degrees F to 100 degrees F. If the temperature reads above 100, your child has a fever.

Replace baby’s diaper and thoroughly clean the thermometer with rubbing alcohol or soap and cool water. Keep in a safe place.

How to take baby’s temperature from his armpit

Remember, the U.S. National Institutes of Health says this is not a very accurate method . Having said that, take the following steps if you want to use this method.

Have these items available before you begin:

  • Rubbing alcohol or soap and water
  • Quality thermometer

Remove baby’s upper clothing to expose his arm and armpit.

Holding thermometer at a perpendicular angle to baby’s body, gently lift baby’s arm and place probe end of thermometer in the center of baby’s armpit, then lower baby’s arm around the thermometer.

Continue to gently hold baby’s arm down (surrounding the thermometer) while awaiting results.

If using a digital thermometer, wait for it to beep. If using a standard thermometer, wait about 3-5 minutes.

Then remove it to read baby’s temperature.

For standard thermometers, slowly turn the thermometer until you see the colored line. Follow the line to the mark where it ends, and that will be the temperature reading. Normal armpit temperatures are about 96 degrees to 99 degrees F (about 2 degrees F lower than rectal readings). If the reading is above 99 degrees F, your child has a fever. For example, if your baby’s temperature reads 100.00 degrees F, his actual temperature is about 102 degrees F. He definitely has a fever.

If baby has a fever, contact your health care provider for advice on what to do next.

Remember - thoroughly clean the thermometer with rubbing alcohol or soap and cool water. Keep in a safe place.

I hope this information was helpful. Enjoy your time with your baby – they grow up REALLY fast.

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Baby Measles – What Is It and How Do You To Treat It?

Sunday, June 21st, 2009

What Is Baby Measles "Baby measles" is a common phrase for "Roseola," a disease that primarily strikes infants and young children (usually between 3 months and 4 years, but most commonly the age group 6-12 months).

The word Roseola, literally translated, means any rose-colored rash. (See , Dorland’s Medical Dictionary for Healthcare Consumers ).

According to the U.S. National Institutes of Health, Roseola is a virus brought on by the human herpesvirus 6 (HHV-6). It spreads via airborne droplets from an infected person.

Infected children may not show any symptoms for 5-15 days. You won’t know your child has Roseola until he or she becomes symptomatic after the incubation period.

Common Symptoms:

  • Mild upper respiratory problems
  • High fever
  • Irritability
  • Decreased appetite
  • The fever drops after 3 – 7 days. Then a pinkish-red rash, flat or raised, appears on the child’s trunk. It will then spread to the arms, legs, face, and neck
  • Seizures may also occur – if this happens seek immediate medical attention.

Treatments

While there is no cure for Roseola, it is not dangerous. However, complications from Roseola can develop, especially during the fevering stage. High fevers can cause convulsions (seizures). Some children may experience difficulty breathing.

If you fear that your child’s symptoms are life threatening, you should call your pediatrician right away, or take your baby to the nearest urgent care facility or emergency room to be checked out.

The only symptom requiring treatment is the fever. The rash does not cause any known discomfort to baby. If your child experiences any respiratory symptoms, these are usually very mild and require no specific treatment.

Treatments for fever may include any combination of the following, as suggested by the National Institutes of Health:

  • Fever-reducers such as acetaminophen (Tylenol) or ibuprofen (Advil) (however, avoid giving your child aspirin, which has been implicated in the development of Reye’s syndrome)
  • Cool sponge baths to help keep fevers in check
  • Clear fluids to keep the infant hydrated.

Duration

  • The fever may last for 3 to 7 days.
  • The rash comes on at the end of the fevering period and disappears on its own within a few days, along with any respiratory symptoms.

Click here to see a photo of the Roseola rash, from GeorgiaHealthInfo.gov.

Has your child had Roseola?

If so, how did you handle it? Feel free to share your experiences by submitting your comments.

Mother-Tested Methods To Help Colicky Baby

Sunday, June 14th, 2009

null Below are some products and methods that other mothers have found helpful to calm an upset baby.

Before you read the list, I need to tell you something.

There are NO guarantees that any of the suggestions on this list will work consistently, although some of the ideas may offer temporary relief – occasionally.

Why? Because your baby is changing rapidly during his infancy, hence his problems and solutions are changing too. Certainly, you should continue to look for ways to help your baby feel better. But, please remember:

  • do not get discouraged,
  • do not give up, and
  • do not criticize yourself if you are unable to find a reliable solution for your baby’s discomfort. It’s not your fault. You’re a caring parent, that’s why you’re seeking help for your baby.

OK, so here’s the list:

Gripe Water

Usually administered with an eye-dropper, this product is meant to help with tummy upsets. So if your baby’s colic is related to gastric upset, this could help. Some modern formulas of Gripe Water still contain sodium bicarbonate, while others are made up of strictly herbal oils and homeopathic substances. Most do not contain alcohol, but please read the ingredients on the label, and do your own research to understand how each ingredient affects baby.

A well-known and popular brand of Gripe Water can be purchased online: The Only FDA Regulated Gripe Water for Infant Colic, Gas and Reflux . Check out the testimonials at the website, you’ll be impressed.

Colic Tablets

These tiny, quick-dissolving tablets, made by Hyland’s, contain homeopathic ingredients to help soothe mild gastric distress by dissipating gas, relieving gastric discomfort, and calming upset babies’ nerves. These are available at most grocery stores and health food outlets.

White Noise

Sounds such as a rainstorm, running clothes dryer, vacuum cleaner running in the distance, TV static, babbling brook, womb sounds and heartbeat, etc. can calm some babies. DVDs and white noise machines are available that contain “white noise” sounds to help soothe baby and help her rest.

Ora Jel® (for teething pain)

Ora Jel® is a topical analgesic (pain reliever) that you can rub across baby’s swollen gums to temporarily numb teething discomforts. This product never really worked for me (maybe my kids never had painful gums, who knows). Ora Jel® is only one of many brands of this topical analgesic, easily available at local grocery outlets.

Warm bath

This never worked for me because my kids hated the water! I don’t know why—they just screamed every time they got wet. But, that was then, this is now. Now there are bathing aids that were unavailable several years ago. These include bath rings, bath chairs, baby bathtubs, etc. I recommend you research these products carefully to be sure you are getting a product that is SAFE and easy to use. Also, be sure the water is warm enough to be comfortable for baby.

Low lights, quiet music, and rocking

Although this technique may not always work, I strongly recommend using it on a regular basis. You can add it into baby’s daily routine, especially at nighttime or nap time. Over a period of several weeks—and perhaps not until the colic stage passes—your baby will begin to associate these quiet moments with bedtime or nap time. Believe me when I say that, what you establish today will become a true live-saver in a few years!

Swaddling

My mother used to swaddle my babies when they cried. She didn’t seem to get rattled by the ear-piercing screams, and would wrap them up snuggly and rock them while they wailed. I believe this technique is an important one to try, because many babies will be comforted by this technique. It is helpful if you obtain a specially-designed swaddling blanket, along with some training on how to properly swaddle your baby. A number of websites offer various swaddling supplies. Here’s one that I recommend: An Off-Switch For Your Crying Baby: The Miracle Blanket . The website contains an amazing video clip showing a baby’s reaction before, during, and after swaddling using The Miracle Blanket ®.

Letting baby cry it out

Use this as a last resort. No parent ever wants to sit by and let their baby cry. But sometimes that’s all you can do. This will not make you happy or relieve your baby’s discomfort, but it may save your sanity when you’ve hit a low point. Every pediatrician will tell you that you can safely allow your baby to cry for 10-15 minutes. Of course, this is not something that should become a habit, but consider it as an option when your nerves are so frazzled you just can’t handle it anymore. And, again, don’t feel bad about yourself for doing this. Your baby will never remember that you ignored him for a few minutes today.

Other

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Family Dogs Can Maul Baby

Saturday, May 16th, 2009

Family Pet Dogs Can Maul Babies -This Could Happen To You!

If you have a new baby in your home, and a pet dog, be cautious. No one every believes their dog could harm their new baby. But it happens, and more than you may realize.

As a former professional dog trainer, I understand canine behavior, and can tell you, unequivocally, that ANY dog of ANY age, breed, or gender, whether or not it has been neutered, can become dangerous around a new baby or a young child.

If you don’t believe it can happen to you, then take a look at these news stories:

What are the warning signs that a dog is a danger to baby?

I am preparing an interview with a long-time friend and professional dog trainer, which will be posted to this website in a few days. Please check back in a few days — or subscribe to updates to read this interview when it comes out.

My Baby Won’t Stop Crying!

Sunday, April 19th, 2009
A Message of Encouragement for Parents of Babies That Won’t Stop Crying

My Baby Won't Stop Crying! “What am I doing wrong?” is a common question parents ask themselves when their baby won’t stop crying. No one is prepared for months of non-stop screaming. No one believes that there’s nothing they can do. No parent ever accepts the fact that some babies are just plain miserable during their first several months of life. For this reason, parents of colicky babies often blame themselves. They think they are doing something wrong because their baby doesn’t want to be held or cuddled or sung to or rocked. They think they are doing something wrong because this pattern wears them down and they start—dare we say it out loud?—hating the baby they love.

Help For Babies With Colic.

There is help for babies with colic; however, not all colicky babies who cry incessantly will immediately respond and stop crying so often, though some do. Every infant with colic will experience a different level of relief, and some babies who have colic will take longer to stop feeling miserable. Additionally, not all colic treatments or colic remedies work the same on every colicky baby. What works well for one baby who cries all the time may not work at all for another baby that won’t stop crying.

Am I a Bad Parent?

You want to do the very best you can for your unhappy infant, so it is VERY important for you to realize—and really believe this: It’s not your fault .

This is a problem your baby has, not you! And you are trying to understand it so you can help her feel better.

Friends and family often do not understand the dynamics involved with a baby that cries all the time. Instead, they tend to look at mom as being inept at parenting, or lacking parental “instincts” that mothers of quiet, happy babies have. Everyone’s got an opinion about what you’re doing wrong, as a parent, and why your baby cries all the time.

Do not believe them. They don’t realize the problem is the baby’s physiology, genetics, disposition, sensitivity, development ; not your instincts. They’ve never had (or never believed they’ve had) a baby that refuses to be consoled.

Even your family doctor, the baby’s pediatrician, may think, when you say “my baby won’t stop crying!” that the problem is a lack of parenting skills rather than colic. But it’s not true. The doctor may tell you there’s nothing that can be done, that “colic” symptoms are normal and will pass (or that there’s no such thing as colic), and that you need to just tough it out for a few more months.

Don’t let this “professional” opinion affect your view of your adequacy as a mother or father. You are a loving, caring parent, or you would not be discussing this problem with your doctor. And never believe that there’s nothing you can do! That’s not going to help you get through this difficult period in your relationship with your baby.

Don’t spend one more day feeling guilty, inadequate, or inept as a parent. That attitude can forever affect how you interact with your child. A million colicky babies can’t have a million inept parents who are all so unskilled as to not be able to find the right parenting “style” to make their baby quiet and cuddly. It’s impossible that so many parents could be so inept that their babies scream for no good reason other than their parents’ inability to properly nurture them.

Why Is My Baby Different?

If you compare your young screaming infant to only those infants who are quiet all the time, and yourself to only those parents who are well-rested (because their baby doesn’t scream 24/7), then you are measuring your self-worth and your parenting adequacies against the wrong measuring stick . All babies are different .

You cannot measure the success of growing an almond tree against the growth of a strawberry plant and say they are the same. They have different climate needs, different soil needs, different nutritional needs, and they do not grow at the same rate. Similarly, babies do not develop at the same rate. What someone else’s baby does isn’t the same as what your baby will do. They have different physiologies, different temperaments, different genetics, different rates of growth and development, even different IQs.

It’s just the way your baby is built. It’s not your fault. Love him anyway, because it’s not his fault either. He’s doing the best he can—and so are you.

Will My Baby Ever Stop Crying?

Yes! It will get better —that’s a given. When it’s all said and done, the most important thing for you to come away with, as a parent, is your self-confidence, and your love for the child who almost broke you; knowing that, while you may not have been able to completely stop baby’s persistent crying, you toughed it out with your little one while she fought her battle with infant colic. You remained by your baby’s side, consoling your colicky infant day and night, giving her strength, comfort, hope, love, support—everything that’s best about you. What you will have achieved is peace of mind because you will know, with confidence, that it is no one’s fault—not yours, not your baby’s. It’s just the luck of the draw.